I recently saw the initial release of a new how-to video series, “Oral Sex for Her Pleasure”. I would have assumed that such a women-centric company like OneTaste would have created a cunnilingus how-to, but they have done the unexpected by creating a video that explains how a woman can receive pleasure from giving a man fellatio. I can heartily recommend this video to any man or woman who wants to learn a little more about how women can truly enjoy giving oral sex.
Now, this is certainly not news to me — I orgasm just thinking about giving a man head. Spontaneous orgasms just hit. I love the feel of my mouth being full with a man’s penis. The taste, the smell, the texture. I absolutely love it. And the truth is, when a woman gives great head, she owns the man. Seriously.
Whenever I give a man oral sex, I always tell him emphatically, “Lay back. This is for me. If you enjoy it, that’s a side benefit.” I have always loved giving fellatio, or as I call it lingam puja (penis worship). Even in the midst of a miserable marriage, I still loved giving oral sex. I figured out that giving him a blow job once per week meant he didn’t complain about bills. And while I loathe the term “blow job”, that time of my life is the only time oral sex felt like a job — a chore, and yet I still loved the act of fellatio itself, even though I detested the man attached to the penis.
The concept behind the “Oral Sex for Her Pleasure” video and corresponding training materials hinges on the fact that women can indeed enjoy giving men oral sex. If she doesn’t want to do oral sex or has a negative perspective due to bad experiences, then she might want to see how much pleasure she can have from it. The first step in a woman receiving pleasure while giving head is realizing that the woman has to want to give head.
Now, before you cry, “That’s male bullshit!”, I understand if you haven’t always (or ever) enjoyed oral sex. Cultural and religious demonization of sexuality, women, women’s bodies, and women’s sexual pleasure have brainwashed society for over 1,700 years, since the rise of imperial patriarchal religion crushed the remaining woman-centic goddess cultures. Women have absorbed this anti-sex and anti-pleasure propaganda, compounded by bullying about how women smell “down there”, and the ludicrous farce of how women are portrayed in most porn. Erotica is woman-centric and respectful of women. And we are a new generation of women who love ourselves and love sexuality without shame or apology!
Some things you will LOVE about this how-to video:
- It’s only $8.
- The woman is not a size 2.
- Her breasts are real.
- The man is UNcircumcised!!! Yes, a real, natural, intact penis!!! Woo-hoo!!!
In fact, she almost apologizes that, at the beginning, his penis is soft. So allow me to say for once and for-fucking-all — the SOFT penis is a marvelous thing! In Tantra, we have several nifty positions and activities for the soft penis, including soft entry penetration (yes, the man enters the vagina with a soft penis) and lingam massage, which is best done with a soft penis to help direct energy flow up into the torso, arms, and legs, rather than out the tip of the penis (helps with ejac control, too). So starting an oral session with a soft penis is fantastic because you get to experience how his body feels as the penis changes in size and hardness. (You control him.)
Back to the video…. She talks about her experience in learning to love oral sex. She also tells the good, bad, and ugly of what intense oral sex does for the woman, including the “furrowed brow” which is a tale-tell sign a woman is in orgasm, the deep-throating technique, as well as the steady stream of “snot” from her nose and the “spot” in the woman’s mouth that triggers orgasms throughout her body. Yes, you will absolutely see the “snot” running out of her nose. Yes, you see her crying several times from the intensity of the orgasms. I’ve written plenty of times here about how the more gut-wrenching my crying is directly equates to the intensity of my orgasm(s). Crying is an integral part of my orgasmic experience, so it’s great to hear other women talking about this topic as well.
As for the “snot”, I would like to clarify that she is not referring to the thick, gross “snot” of a sinus infection, but rather the normal sinus muscosa you have draining down the back of your throat 24/7. This mucosa is a necessary moisturizing lubricant for the back of the pharynx (very back of the mouth, top of the throat). In fact, when you don’t have this normal nasal drip, you may experience a dry cough or have clogged sinuses. So this mucosa is what she has dripping from her nose — but that’s okay! Vaginal fluids are also a type of mucosa (derived from the plasma from the blood in the vaginal walls’ muscular tissue), and men LOVE lapping it up! So let the snot run! After all, when your mouth is full of penis, the only way the snot can go is out your nose (or your ear, but that would take a miracle of physics).
Another thing you’re likely to notice in her technique is that she is actually quite still — remember me talking about slow sex? In Tantra, there is a technique of motionless sex — yes, motionless! The oral technique as shown in the video will help any woman out there who’s gotten whiplash bobbing her head up and down while giving a blow job. (Again, most porn is ridiculous). If you want to learn some groovy info and techniques, watch this how-to.
I can definitely recommend this affordable $8 video that can introduce you to the amazing world of women’s pleasure as instructed in “Oral Sex for Her Pleasure”. I give my full approval of the information in this video and all the products they have. THEY LOVE WOMEN! And when you’ve seen it, come back here, and leave a comment telling me what YOU think of the video!