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"Arouse" means "to stir to action or response; to awaken."
An ActivistArtist(TM), Trish Causey has dedicated her life to changing the world for the better through activism. On her ArousedWoman.com and ArousedWomanBlog.com, Trish is proud to debunk myths, stereotypes, and misogynist misinformation about women in society and religion, the female body, female sexuality, and the orgasmic process in both women and men. A professional freelance writer and proud owner of a vagina, Trish Causey is an award-winning composer/writer, successful radio show host. Revel in Trishtopia by following her @AnArousedWoman.
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Comments 01-23-13: Man Uses Clit Techniques I Recommended to Please Partner
Readers will tweet me or email me to say that something I’ve written here on the blog or in my random tweeting has changed their perspective towards orgasm, enlightened them on female anatomy, or awakened an awareness about self and pleasure they had not previously experienced or had long forgotten.
Apparently, in my communiqués on the clitoris and how to approach the clit, one reader took some of my words to heart and implemented some simple techniques I mentioned when he was with a partner recently.
And then I went a bit preachy about the clit and the stupidity of porn, so please forgive that.
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