A reader of my blog in England has written in with a great question about how to stop his addiction to porn and how to stop ejaculating. He also has a keen interest in Tantra and wants to know how to grow his experience in a sensual, loving way and ditch porn for good.
Here’s the missive he sent me:
Hi Trish, and thank you for your amazing work.
I’m a married man in my late twenties, and I suspect I have a very strong sex drive. Unfortunately, I developed an addiction to porn, probably due to a lack of sexual guidance and education.
I have been looking into tantra for a long time, but until now, this practice hasn’t been going much further than buying books. I just can’t seem to be able not to ejaculate, as if without it, all the tension in my mind and body can’t be channeled; and I keep going back to porn.
What is the best way to start developing a healthy sexuality and not misusing my sexual energy, and what can I do to stop my porn addiction? With a computer around it seems way to difficult to stop, but at the same time, [the] internet opens me to information like your work that helps [in] dealing with my issue.
How can I find a trustworthy tantric master in my area (England) who will guide me in this process?
Such a great topic! And I do my best to answer his questions in my latest video. So be sure to check it out. And leave a comment below to share your own journey with expansion and positive sexuality.
A young man in his 20’s contacted me with an in-depth series of questions — a real doozy of a submission, I must say! There were way too many questions to answer at once and definitely too many to answer in one video. (P.S. For in-depth questions like this, book a consult. Seriously. My fees are reasonable. You get paid at your job, don’t you?)
I decided to take his last question and answer it in my latest installment of AskTrish. He wanted to know if he should tell the women he dates that he is looking for marriage. This is a complex issue, and I’m hearing from more and more men who find themselves in this situation of wanting to settle down, but the women they know don’t want to be tied down by marriage. This is a complete gender-role reversal that is upsetting the delicate balance of patriarchy … I mean, society.
Check out the video below, and be sure to leave a comment here or on the YouTube page.
To submit a one-question question for possible inclusion in an upcoming AskTrish video, post, or radio commentary, just contact me through my Tumblr “AskTrish”.
In this AskTrish video, I answer a question posted on my ArousedWoman Facebook page by a man who asked, “Is there a difference between being bold compared to being confident when approaching a woman?”
I try to cover all the bases in my video response, PLUS when confidence and boldness go too far.
For today’s “AskTrish”, a friend (who wishes to remain anonymous) contacted me about his “addiction” he’s developed to the “special finish” offered at a local massage place. He wants help, and I’m here to help him! Watch the video to hear my advice on how to handle this situation.
To contact me for an AskTrish question or to schedule a 1-on-1 consult, email me through my site: http://www.ArousedWoman.com.