A reader of my blog in England has written in with a great question about how to stop his addiction to porn and how to stop ejaculating. He also has a keen interest in Tantra and wants to know how to grow his experience in a sensual, loving way and ditch porn for good.
Here’s the missive he sent me:
Hi Trish, and thank you for your amazing work.
I’m a married man in my late twenties, and I suspect I have a very strong sex drive. Unfortunately, I developed an addiction to porn, probably due to a lack of sexual guidance and education.
I have been looking into tantra for a long time, but until now, this practice hasn’t been going much further than buying books. I just can’t seem to be able not to ejaculate, as if without it, all the tension in my mind and body can’t be channeled; and I keep going back to porn.
What is the best way to start developing a healthy sexuality and not misusing my sexual energy, and what can I do to stop my porn addiction? With a computer around it seems way to difficult to stop, but at the same time, [the] internet opens me to information like your work that helps [in] dealing with my issue.
How can I find a trustworthy tantric master in my area (England) who will guide me in this process?
Such a great topic! And I do my best to answer his questions in my latest video. So be sure to check it out. And leave a comment below to share your own journey with expansion and positive sexuality.
It seems that what everyone wants to know about Tantra is the sex part … specifically, how to realize multiple orgasms and orgiastic fantasies. And I completely understand. But there is some background information that I feel is important for novices to know.
In this video, I talk about the approach to the sexual union from a Tantrik perspective as well as the puja (ritual) part of this path, which is often very Goddess-oriented.
But the answer isn’t as simple as “do this here”, “do that there”.
A woman is not a robot. Neither is a man. There is more to arousal and sexual happiness than just the application of regimented “rub this”, “poke that”, “twist those”….
Watch the video below as I address Tantrik techniques for better orgasms.
Tantra is all about expansion, and this includes expanding our perception of pleasure. For my YouTube video today, I talk about the various ways to experience pleasure to improve your happiness and overall enjoyment of life. And yes, this goes beyond sex. Pleasure is more than just orgasm. And it can greatly benefit you, your life, your relationship, and even your work.
To learn more about my workshops or to schedule a consult, visit my website: http://www.ArousedWoman.com.