Arts, Activism, Awakening in Mind, Body, & Spirit


AskTrish: Man Asks How to Stop His Addiction to Porn & Ejaculation

AskTrish: Man Asks How to Stop His Addiction to Porn & EjaculationA reader of my blog in England has written in with a great question about how to stop his addiction to porn and how to stop ejaculating. He also has a keen interest in Tantra and wants to know how to grow his experience in a sensual, loving way and ditch porn for good.

Here’s the missive he sent me:

Hi Trish, and thank you for your amazing work.

I’m a married man in my late twenties, and I suspect I have a very strong sex drive. Unfortunately, I developed an addiction to porn, probably due to a lack of sexual guidance and education.

I have been looking into tantra for a long time, but until now, this practice hasn’t been going much further than buying books. I just can’t seem to be able not to ejaculate, as if without it, all the tension in my mind and body can’t be channeled; and I keep going back to porn.

What is the best way to start developing a healthy sexuality and not misusing my sexual energy, and what can I do to stop my porn addiction? With a computer around it seems way to difficult to stop, but at the same time, [the] internet opens me to information like your work that helps [in] dealing with my issue.

How can I find a trustworthy tantric master in my area (England) who will guide me in this process?


Such a great topic! And I do my best to answer his questions in my latest video. So be sure to check it out. And leave a comment below to share your own journey with expansion and positive sexuality.

Take care,




Tantra: Sex Ritual Background Information

Tantra: Sex Ritual Background Information It seems that what everyone wants to know about Tantra is the sex part … specifically, how to realize multiple orgasms and orgiastic fantasies. And I completely understand. But there is some background information that I feel is important for novices to know.

In this video, I talk about the approach to the sexual union from a Tantrik perspective as well as the puja (ritual) part of this path, which is often very Goddess-oriented.




Tantra: Are There Techniques to Have Better Orgasms?

Tantra: Are There Techniques for Better Orgasms?I’m often asked if there are specific techniques in Tantra to have better orgasms or to make a woman’s pleasure better. The answer, of course, is YES.

But the answer isn’t as simple as “do this here”, “do that there”.

A woman is not a robot. Neither is a man. There is more to arousal and sexual happiness than just the application of regimented “rub this”, “poke that”, “twist those”….

Watch the video below as I address Tantrik techniques for better orgasms.




ARTS: Become a Patron and Support My Work

Trish Causey - Become a Patron and Support My Work via is a very popular blog, and I am so proud of that! I’ve worked very hard (and been through quite a lot!) in the past 3 years since I launched ArousedWoman and this blog.

As I’ve grown, so has this blog, and I love being able to help people. AWBlog has grown from my personal diary and attempt at online activism to a lively blog, radio show, YouTube videos, and the upcoming magazine (finally!) — all of which focus on the things that are important to me, from arts and activism, to health and fitness, and of course, sex and relationships.

All this content is time-consuming, but I LOVE IT! And keeping all these balls in the air requires hardware, software, equipment, and upgrades. This is where Patreon and you come in!

Patreon is a new platform for artists who create content on a frequent basis, and I’ve got a brand new page at You’ve read my blog for a while now, probably listened to my radio show, interacted with me on Twitter and Facebook, and maybe even had one of your questions answered by me personally here on the blog, my radio show, or even YouTube.

I also record songs, voice readings, compose music, and teach lessons.

Now, you can support my work in a way that is super easy. You can choose to be a patron at $1/month, $3/month, $5/month, $10/month, or more. Check out the Rewards for each level, and just choose which one is right for you.

As a patron, you’ll be able to have special interaction with me, and the different Rewards’ levels offer various options for group hangouts, free stuff, patron-only exclusive content, first shot at new releases, and private 1-on-1 Skype sessions.

I can’t wait to count you as a patron of my work. Thank you for checking out my new page at Patreon!




YouTube: Tantra: Redefining Pleasure

Trish Causey ~ Tantra: Redefining Pleasure ~ YouTubeTantra is all about expansion, and this includes expanding our perception of pleasure. For my YouTube video today, I talk about the various ways to experience pleasure to improve your happiness and overall enjoyment of life. And yes, this goes beyond sex. Pleasure is more than just orgasm. And it can greatly benefit you, your life, your relationship, and even your work.

To learn more about my workshops or to schedule a consult, visit my website:





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